I mentioned that after Kay leaves we’ll probably be alone in the house for “a VERY LONG TIME.” And I realized that the TN Fritz kids could misinterpret that, since we haven’t invited them over to stay for a week this year like we did last year.
To clarify, if we could have the kids here, even right now with so many other people in the house and the craziness that’s happening, we would. We absolutely would love to have them. Unfortunately, we have a very small apartment right now and having four people in it for the last two weeks has been challenging enough; I don’t think anyone would have had fun if we tried to cram in 3 rambunctious kids.
But even when it’s down to three people, I don’t think it would be wise to invite the kids over. Kay has a lot of anger toward the church and one heck of a potty mouth and I don’t want to expose kids to who love Jesus as much as my brother’s kids do to someone who’s that angry toward God. Plus, she’s not a very good example for kids and I don’t want them exposed to that. And I don’t want them exposed to how frustrated Justin and I get toward her. (I feel bad enough exposing adults to our frustration.)
When she leaves at the end of July (56 days), there would be time in between then and when school starts up again, but we won’t have any money. So we’d have the space again and the mental capacity to have the kids here, but we wouldn’t have any money to take them to the water park or anything fun. And, yeah, it’s not necessary to do expensive things, but it’s FUN and we’d rather be able to have a certain amount of money set aside for their visit to go places and buy things. This spring was much more expensive than expected, putting us seriously behind on our debt-freedom plan, and we don’t have that money set aside right now.
So, as much as we really would love to have the kids again this year, I don’t think it’s going to be possible. But it’s absolutely not because we don’t want to have them. We had an awesome time visiting with them last summer and we DEFINITELY want to do that again. It’s just an unusual spring/summer for us and we’re not going to be able to do it.
Now, we absolutely WILL NOT be inviting in another person to be a roommate again, possibly ever.
But that’s TOTALLY different from having kids who I love (and who I love to spoil) coming to visit. Someday, I want to have space enough for ALL the nieces and nephews to come and visit all at the same time and make like a big ol’ summer camp out of it or something. We’ll have them help feed the goats and ducks and collect eggs from the chickens and let them go wandering around in the woods and hang out in the hay loft and that kind of thing. We just have to figure out how to make it happen in the next handful of years before the kids get too old. And until we have the farm, they’ll just have to hang out in our little bitty apartment and go out for adventures at the beach and other places around here. And, very sadly, we won’t be able to make it happen this year.
But next year? Next summer is going to be awesome.
It’s been about a month since I wrote about my goals, so how about an update on that?
First, a quick reminder that my goals by June 31st are:
Pay at least $200/month extra toward our debts
Sew at least 1 skirt and 1 shirt
Be able to play 3 chords on my guitar
Be able to run 1 mile contiguously
Grow 2 plants for food/spice
Look into Lean/Six Sigma certification training
Learn how to make better goals
And now a rundown on how those are going thus far:
On track: Progress on paying off our debts is going fine. I haven’t got an actual update on the numbers right now, but I know that we’re making steady progress on paying these off and I’m happy about it.
On track: I’ve got a skirt put together that needs finishing – I would like to top stich it with a double needle and I don’t have one. And I might tear it apart a little and do a better job along the waistline because it’s just not fitting quite right. I’ve got the fabric for the shirt that I’m making for Dad, but the pattern I have is the wrong size, so I’ll be taking that back and getting the right one. I should have the skirt done by the end of the weekend and I hope to have the shirt done by the time Justin and I catch up with Mom and Dad on their April Tour of Homes.
COMPLETE: I am happy to say that I have exceeded this goal already! I can play 6 chords: C, G7, F, Am, Dm, & E7! I have my second lesson with Dad tonight and I’m very excited about it! I’m listing this goal as completed, but I’m certainly not going to stop working hard at this. I’m enjoying it far too much to stop now!
At risk: Exercising regularly has been, so far, my biggest goal-progress failing and I haven’t shown any significant progress. I need to put more focused energy on this.
COMPLETE: The Chattanooga visit was fantastic and we very much enjoyed the city. We’re still evaluating it (or, at least, I am) and weighing the options and everything. At this point, moving is such a long ways out that this is not a significant goal.
On track: The parsley is still alive! And I’m going to look more into what would need to happen in order to grow strawberries.
At risk: Dad sent me a great link about Six Sigma training, but I haven’t taken the time to read it yet, so I really need to sit down and do that. Mom also mentioned professional editing and I’m going to review again why I dismissed that as an option previously. This is the other goal that I really need to put some focus into but haven’t managed to do so just yet.
Tabled: I think the way I’m working on the goals that I’ve set for myself is working out just fine, so I’m letting this one go for now. I’m very pleased with the progress that I’ve been able to make, so why fuss about it?
All the pictures in this post are from Rock City, which I’ll talk about in a minute. They’re the only pictures I have from Sunday and since I’ve got a bunch of them and posts with pictures are more interesting, I think, you get a lot of random pictures of rocks!
The previous post ended with us having dinner with Nathan and Amy and Co. I’m not sure I expressed clearly how much fun that was. It was a blast! We sat at Five Guys and the kids told jokes and the adults chatted away. Ethan chatted Justin’s ear off and I talked about how much I wish we had space where the kids could visit and spend a couple days hanging out, which Audrey would love because she wants to raise animals. And on the way back to the car, Ethan asked, “How long before they move here?” And that made all of us smile, I think.
Justin and I aren’t particularly interested in having children of our own, but we’d love to have the opportunity to spoil our nieces and nephews and hang out with them!
After goodbyes and all, when I completely failed at getting pictures of anybody, we went back to the hotel to get some sleep. The floor with our room still smelled like burned popcorn, but fortunately the ventilation in our room was good enough to keep it smelling fresh in there. (Oh! And I forgot to mention that when we evacuated the night before, we both managed to have shoes on and grab our wallet/purse, but neither one of us managed to remember to grab a key to get back in! That just added to the fun, by the way.)
Sunday morning, we packed up and checked out of the hotel. We drove around town a little more, getting out of the touristy areas and trying to get a little bit lost. Justin pointed out on the way home that I never actually drove while we were in Chattanooga and he should have let me try at some point just so I could feel how it is to drive there. He kept commenting that he never felt stressed out driving. The roads are wide and well planned out, so nothing ever felt really crowded. We never really got lost, I think, because it was easy enough to figure out where things are located.
And Chattanooga seems to have this unique vibe where it’s a big-ish city, but it doesn’t feel big. And it’s artsy and a little bit hipster, but also a little bit hippy. There’s the understanding that restaurants in the area will try to use local produce whenever possible and the art on the walls of the stores will be from local artists. Justin didn’t think much of this next point, but I’m amazed that there’s a trash can at every single corner of the blocks downtown. I’m sure people still throw trash on the ground, but there’s much less of it because there’s almost always a trashcan not 50 feet away. There’s loads of parking downtown, which doesn’t mean that it’s going to be easy to find, as we learned on Saturday, but you’ll have lots of places to look. And I never felt in danger anywhere downtown after dark or anywhere we drove around. I’m sure we didn’t get to the roughest parts of town, but that’s still impressive to me.
I mean, compare it to Savannah. I don’t like to go downtown after dark in Savannah because it’s not safe all the time. I’d certainly never go alone. And finding parking is awful, let alone finding parking nearby to a variety of restaurants. The buildings in Savannah are delightful and have a lot of Oldie Towne charm, which is something that Chattanooga doesn’t have. But I’d much rather have somewhere that I can feel safe than somewhere that looks cute.
After driving around for a while, we made our way to Rock City. We didn’t really know what we were getting ourselves into when we bought our tickets, but we figured it was worth a look. And it was beautiful, even with all the plants wintering over, an overcast sky, and a cool breeze blowing. It’s certainly an odd little park. Mostly, you walk this path that twists and turns its way through a park of plants and rocks. It doesn’t sound like much, right? But I’m sure the plants are lovely in the warmer months. And the rocks and landscape were just fantastic. There were a few spots that made me anxious as we had to squeeze through a very small gap in between two very large rock faces. But I never got stuck anywhere and the view from the top, even with an overcast sky, was breathtaking. I bet it’s amazing when the sky is clear. And the colors of all the trees in the fall must be beautiful!
The Fairyland at the end was a little odd. It was unique and I can appreciate its uniqueness. But I don’t particularly have a need to go back and see the fairy tale scenes painted in black light paints. It’s got that creepy, weird feel that I don’t enjoy so much.
We didn’t plan to be walking as much as we did, so neither of us wore the most appropriate shoes for that adventure. By the end, we were both tired, even though it’s not a long walk. Sadly, we weren’t done with our walking for the day. After heading back to the car, we made our way to the Costco on the edge of town to do some shopping. We’ve learned that there are some things that help our budget tremendously when we buy it from Costco – like ground turkey meat and granola bars and air filters and toilet paper. Man, the cost of milk, if we could regularly buy our milk there….
We did our shopping, put the cold items in the cooler in the car, and set off for home. The drive home was uneventful. We didn’t hit nearly the amount of traffic through Atlanta on our way south as we did heading north. We stopped for dinner along the way, but mostly just set our sights for home and made it in just about 6 hours. Justin had it timed down to the minute when we would pull into the driveway and I can’t remember what that time was right now, but I do know that he had it spot on the nose.
And that was the end of our trip! We put away the groceries, sorted out the laundry, and settled back into the house.
We really do like Chattanooga. We’d definitely like to visit again during another season and see what it’s like when everything isn’t all dead-looking and all the water features in the city aren’t bone dry for the winter. I’m not sure how busy it gets during the “tourist season” of the year and that would be good to know. But so far, we’ve had a good impression of the city and the nearby areas. Time to do a little bit more research and planning and then head up there again, probably in the middle of April!
Hang on tight — this is another really long one. With photos! But DANG. LONG.
Our trip to Chattanooga was fantastic! It had it’s little hiccups, but it was all awesome in the end.
For example, we planned to set out after our chiropractor appointment on Friday morning. We got out about 8 miles before turning back around because the SD card in Justin’s tablet died, taking all our music along with it. We turned around and got another music source so we wouldn’t have to do that whole drive with only the music on my phone. 12 hours of driving would have been MISERABLE with not enough music.
Our six-hour drive that should have started around 10:00 then started closer to 12:00, which was fine; we should still have arrived around 6:00. Except we failed to consider that the route took us straight up through the middle of Atlanta during rush hour. Atlanta traffic alone backed up our arrival time from 6:00 to 8:30.
But hey, it was still fine. It actually meant that we got to experience entering the Chattanooga valley differently than we would have if it had still been dark. This way, we hit the outskirts of town, crested the hill overlooking the valley and both went “Whoa!” as we saw the city spread out along the valley below. But around the edge of the valley, we could see this arching rise of lights as the houses that overlook the city rim the tops of the nearby hills. It was really a lot more impressive to see at night than when we saw it later during the daylight hours. During the day, it just looks like a city. At night, it’s like a pond full of stars edged with fairy lights.
Okay, so I’m waxing a little poetical. Deal with it. 🙂
Justin is looking at the maps here to figure out where we’re going to go next.
We got into our hotel, which was lovely. I took some pictures the next day when it was light. We had a fridge and a little kitchenette that we never had a use for, but at least we had a place to store milk for Justin’s breakfast.
It’s tricky to take good pictures of rooms without a wide-angle lens. But you can get a pretty good idea about how the room looked from these, I hope.
We went out for a late dinner after getting into town. One of the things we love about downtown Chattanooga is that there are a wide variety of restaurants within walking distance. We had a choice of Thai, Italian, barbeque, Mongolian, Greek, and so many others. It was a delight to stand at a corner and go: “So, barbeque or Mediterranean?” without having to change our plans or parking at all.
The first night of our stay was unfortunately interrupted by a rude awakening at about 2:30 in the morning.
That’s right, at 2:30 AM everybody in the hotel got booted from their beds and out onto the street because a girl around 13 years old on the same floor as us burned popcorn in the microwave in her room. She was part of a group of about 2 dozen girls who thought it was the funniest thing ever as we were all evacuating the building, and hopefully thought it was less amusing later on after noticing that every person in the hotel was cranky.
I did learn that I have learned my fire safety training. I got to the door of our room, smelled for smoke, and when I smelled it, touched the door to see if it was warm, all without realizing I’d done that until after the fact, and all while completely bleary-eyed because I’d been sound asleep until 2 minutes before that.
We got a later start to our morning because of being up in the middle of the night, but Saturday morning we set out to see the city. We walked a little ways from our hotel to get to the city library. We had to walk past the Tennessee Valley Authority, who has an impressively sized building.
The thing we noticed about the buildings in Chattanooga is that they are pretty blocky, with a fondness for concrete, and look like they were built in the ’70s. It’s all just a little dated. It’s in good repair and everything, just not the most attractive lookings ever.
The public library is quite impressive. The first floor is the adult stacks, the second floor is the children’s section, complete with a handful of hands-on activities for kids, the third floor is histories and genealogies, and the fourth floor is a “maker space” that includes a 3D printer, among other things. That floor was closed when we visited, but we spoke with a very enthusiastic children’s librarian who was very excited to talk about the library and her city.
We eventually caught the electric bus that circuits through downtown and that brought us, among other places, to the Chattanooga Choo Choo, which, as it turns out, is sort of a hotel now. But there’s still an engine with the name on it.
After that, we stopped so I could get some coffee at a sweet little coffee shop and stuck our head into the most odd bookstore where the eclectic older woman running the shop sells more yarn than she does books and where she teaches spinning classes and the books are shelved along with huge skeins of yarn and her dogs check you at the door to see if you’re a threat.
You have no idea how much I wanted to stay there, help her get the books back in order and let her take care of her yarn while I took care of the books. The place was inappropriately called ALLBOOKS.
After this, we made our way to the Tennessee Aquarium, which is split into two buildings, one for the rivers and one for the oceans, and I took more pictures of fish than I really intended to take.
The aquarium is really quite impressive, though. They’ve got a sea horses galore, star fish, trout, eels, turtles of all shapes and sizes, sting rays, sturgeon, sharks, penguins, and so much more.
They have two touching tanks where you can stick your hand in the tanks with the animals and pet them. One of them is for enormous sturgeons and the other is for little sting rays and sharks. This was AMAZING and sting rays feel like wet silk, they’re smooth and soft and just the teensist bit slimy.
The top of the oceans building has glass like the river one I’ve got a picture of here and inside of that dome they have a butterfly garden where you can walk in around the butterflies.
They’re getting otters sometime this year and yes, I will pay the $20 per person just to go in and see the otters. Plus I’d get to see the turtles again and touch the sting rays again and hang out with the butterflies and once again get completely creeped out by the room filled with jellyfish. Seriously, it’s a room that’s dark except for lights under the fish tanks so the jellyfish are just floating in the dark along all the walls in the room, floor to ceiling. It’s wall-to-wall jellyfish. Creepy.
But the inside of the ocean building is mostly just a huge tank that you can walk around and under parts of and see that it’s teeming with fish of all kinds, with sea turtles and sharks and sting rays and more. It was beautiful and amazing and I wish we hadn’t been quite so tired from walking around so much because by the end we were pretty much dead on our feet and wishing to sit down for a while.
Which was what we did, actually. After leaving the aquarium, we went back to the hotel, Justin took a look at the maps of the area a little, and then we just drove around for a while, trying to get a feel for the area. We drove out to see how big the Volkswagen plant is (it’s HUGE) and the nearby towns that are to the east of town. We don’t want to live in town when we do move to where ever we move, so it’s important to understand what the country is like.
I don’t have any good pictures from our drive, but that’s mostly because I was so distracted by the landscape. It’s hilly without being mountainous, just a bit more hilly than you’d normally expect for farmland, I guess. It was a cloudy day, as you can tell from the photos already, and it’s still winter, so it’s all dead-looking and brown, but the area is quite lovely. It didn’t take long to get from downtown into the country, which means the roads are easy to get around and the suburbs don’t sprawl much. There’s a bunch of farms in the area — we saw several herds of cows.
All in all, it seemed like a place where we could buy property and feel at home pretty easily.
Heading back into town, we’d been in touch with Nathan earlier in the day to see if we could meet up for dinner and, after figuring things out with Amy, who wasn’t home when we called, they let us know they’d meet us downtown later in the evening. We had hopes to visit a local restaurant, but it turns out downtown is a popular place on Saturday nights, so we ended up at Five Guys. But we got good burgers and chatted away for a couple hours and had a really wonderful time! I was really glad that we had the opportunity to spend time with all of them. If we do move to Chattanooga (and we really do like the city), it would be a lot of fun to meet up with them more often!
This is getting really long, so I’m going to wrap up for now and continue with Sunday stuff next post.
I started on this post over the weekend to show how I’d done on my goals for last week. I was going to post it on Monday, along with an updated list for this coming week.
And then I woke up on Monday and fought against a panic attack all day long. Huge amounts of anxiety and paranoia and issues. Wanna know how much fun that was at work? It was ZERO fun. Fortunately, I have an awesome husband and once I got home, my evening was delightfully relaxing. And I didn’t touch my computer all evening.
Here we are on Tuesday now, and I guess it’s not too late to post this information. It’s just not quite as timely as I’d hoped.
So, how did I do on my goals for last week?
Pull out the items for Craigslist and eBay that we were going to sell and get them looking nice, take pictures, figure out how much they’re worth, and get them listed.
Glass bowls from the wedding that we never found a reason to use
Screen door that we never used and I’m not entirely sure where it actually came from in the first place
Tennis racquet that I never used because, of the racquet games, I prefer racquetball
Old TV that’s been sitting in a corner because we don’t need three TVs. We hardly use two.
Old TV and stand that we don’t want to use anymore. The stand’s just been taking up space and we really only use one TV and the other one is better.
Things not yet posted because they’re in the attic and we didn’t get up there:
Jars from the wedding that have been in box since the day of the wedding
Castle building set that I’ve never seen outside of the box
Sadly, no bites from anyone interested in buying anything yet.
Review budgets for February and make sure we’re sticking to them.
So far so good!!
Look up the information about gored skirts again and work out the details on how to create a pattern for that.
I got distracted by looking up patterns and fabric for a flannel shirt for Dad, so I didn’t do the skirt, but I have made progress on the shirt.
Also, I made a little pin cushion just for fun
Pull out the guitar, re-learn how to tune the strings, and read though the book I bought about how to learn how to play.
Tuned the strings and practiced out of the book for a while
Started setting up a time to do Skype lessons with Dad
Go walking/do aerobics or yoga/go for a bike ride a couple times this week.
This one was a big fat failure. I can do better!
Ask Justin if he needs/wants my help with the Chattanooga planning.
Nope, he’s good.
Figure out what plant to grow – I’ve got parsley already, if I can keep it alive. What else do I want to grow? Basil? Oregano? Strawberries?
Yeah, I’m still not sure about this one.
Remember to water the parsley.
The parsley will live to see another week!
Look up what goes into Lean/Six Sigma training.
I did nothing on this one at all.
Go to the library and look up books on goal planning (also pick up books on gardening and sewing)
And I never made it close to the library
Looking at this coming week, I’m not going to make very many goals for myself because we’re going to be out of town. (Any robbers interested in the house, our neighbors have dogs and they keep an eye on our house very well because it’s attached to their own and they use our parking spaces!) And in order to work a 4 day week two weeks in a row, I have to put in long hours the next couple days.
That said, this is what I’m looking at this week:
Contact people back if they email about the things on Craigslist
Don’t spend crazy lots of money in Chattanooga
Figure out a pattern and fabric for the shirt for Dad
Have a guitar lesson with Dad on Thursday
Walk as much as possible, whenever possible
Explore Chattanooga and see if it’s somewhere we’d like to eventually move. And have a whole heck of a lot of fun while we’re at it; enjoy each other’s company while we’re driving, enjoy the scenery, enjoy the changing of the weather, and just enjoy the ever-living snot out of the whole weekend.
And then there’s things like packing and doing laundry and finishing the project for Mom and sending that back to her, working 40 hours (minimum) and getting a new tire on the car before we drive 6 hours each way on a bald tire.
Thankfully, the anxiety that plagued me yesterday hasn’t been a problem today. And that’s great because something is going on with people at work and everybody’s already a little bit on edge.
If you don’t hear from me again in a couple days, it’s because I’m working like crazy and then enjoying myself like crazy! I’ll try to come back from Chattanooga with loads and loads of photos! (Because they’re the souvenir that’s FREE!)